I am at a loss for words… In the following days, I will try to find the words to describe how devastating this is. But for now, I will let the American Civil Liberties Union speak through their Twitter Account in the photos below. This is a sad, scary day.
It turns out Trader Joe’s doesn’t sell tampons or pads. Walking into a grocery store that doesn’t have these necessary items for nearly half the population is mind boggling to me. Hey, Dan Bane, white, male CEO of Trader Joe’s: Do you think this is a luxury item for your customers?
My friend had the perfect question when I told her they don’t carry feminine hygiene products. She said, “That’s bizarre. Do they carry toilet paper?” The answer to that is yes. One could argue menstrual products are actually more of a necessity than toilet paper. We’d rather not bleed all over the place fyi.
When I asked the cashier why they don’t sell feminine hygiene products, her answer was: “Oh, we don’t sell razors, or shaving cream or plastic products and stuff like that.” Stuff like that? Your equating a necessary item for half the people of our planet with messed up, plastic products? Is this unique to my city? Or is this a company wide policy? If this company were run by a woman, I can’t imagine they would not sell a vital product like this. Trader Joe’s needs to step up, explain themselves, and start selling this basic necessity. Are they sexist? Naive? They need to explain themselves.
I would like to see Trader Joes, what I consider a fantastic company, to join us in the 21st century where women can go to their favorite grocery store and pick up the necessary items they need.
Today, January 20th, 2021, a woman became Vice President of the United States. Also, the first African American and South Asian American to hold the position: The second highest position in the country.
This is a deeply important moment, not just for women, but for humankind, in taking a step towards creating some semblance of balance. We still have a long way to go, but we are further on the trajectory towards a better world, one where power does not rest solely in male, white hands.
Thank you Kamala Harris, for taking this enormous step forward for us.
Ruth Bader Ginsberg’s contribution to Americans, particularly American women, is absolutely incredible: If you are a woman, and you have a credit card in your own name (and not your husbands name) you owe RBG thanks. If you have leased an apartment or bought property in your name, you owe RBG a thanks. If you have consented to your own medical treatment, you owe RBG thanks. If you played a sport in school, you owe RBG thanks.
One of the biggest contributions she has made to our country, is being a voice for choice: The right for women to control their own bodies and not be forced into motherhood. The right to an abortion.
I have had difficulty expressing the magnitude of the passing of Ms. Ginsberg and the immensity for what it means for women (and men’s girlsfriends/partners) to potentially lose access to the safety net of abortion.
Therefore, I would like to leave you with my friend Lynsey Bourke’s words of wisdom. She gets right to the heart of the issue and the problems we face as a nation. Bourke works to make abortion accessible in West Africa and she is someone I knew from when I lived in Montana. She is a regional operations director for DKT International, the world’s largest providers of family planning and safe abortion services. She is an incredible authority on the topic. In a post on September 19th, she states:
If you are an informed and compassionate person, chances are, you want trump out of office. You’re angry and saddened at the world he has created. You’re astounded by his stupidity and the way he has torn the country apart. You’re incensed that he has perpetuated the death of thousands and thousands of people, needlessly, at the hands of incompetent leadership during a pandemic. What can you do?
VOTE HIM OUT. Do not abstain from voting just because Biden and Harris are not your favorite. It is your humanly duty (and all of ours!) to vote Biden, in order to get trump out of office, and to get his tiny hands to relinquish the grasp he has on our democracy and well-being.
I cannot believe I even have to state why it is important to vote Biden this November. I have some friends who are going to abstain from voting since Bernie or Warren are not the pick. Are you KIDDING me? These folks, who are very bright, good-hearted, progressive individuals, are gambling our democracy away with their misplaced ethics. I get that they want a better system and want better democrat candidates. So do we all. But you’re not going to get that if our democracy is gone. Allowing trump to stay in office any longer not only threatens democracy, it literally threatens people’s lives: trump’s mismanagement and avoidance of the COVID pandemic has caused thousands and thousands of people to die. The fact that I know people who are even considering not voting for Biden astounds me. Allowing trump to stay in office threatens the planet. The environment is already beginning to collapse because of the climate crisis, and some people are going to sit back and allow a “leader” like trump to dig us deeper into this horrific environmental catastrophe? I’m appalled. If you want a better democracy, you have to VOTE for it. You first have to oust the man causing it’s demise.
VOTE. Not voting for Biden would mean trump is elected again, which would perpetuate the pandemic and further the climate crisis. It would also mean pushing vulnerable populations further into the horrific circumstances trump has perpetuated and created, and would continue to create. It means women, LGBTQ+ and minorities will be further subjugated. THIS CANNOT STAND. We all must band together and vote Biden in order to get rid of trump.
1.) Make sure you are registered to vote at your current address and VOTE.
2.) Have those tough conversations with people who are on the fence. But have those tough conversations with understanding, grit and kindness. I am a firm believer that you CAN change people’s minds by talking to them. In-fact, that is the very way you DO change minds. As long as you’re not doing so with anger, and you know you are speaking the truth with basic kindness, you can and will, change minds.
3.) Donate to Biden and Harris’s campaign. I know they’re not your favorite pick: They weren’t mine. But you know whose worse? trump. So let’s get him out! One way to do that is to help monetarily in any way you can. (I took out a hundred bucks from my savings. That’s a lot for me. But give whatever you can, even if it’s five bucks.) We all know trump is a money-grubbing unconscionable billionaire. So we have to fight money with money. You want to see trump out? Financially support the people (Biden and Harris) who can beat him.
4.) Volunteer somewhere that is working for progress. I’m personally going to find an organization that is helping get people registered to vote.
5.) Help a friend get their ballot or give them a ride to the polls.
6.) Post on social media about your support for Biden. A support for Biden, however begrudgingly, is a direct slap in trump’s pathetic face.
Now is the time for action. We face a crossroads right now as a nation and as a globally connected community: We must, and CAN, vote trump OUT. Our lives, our democracy, and our decency depends on it.
Below is a quote that encapsulates an important point about where we are with politics right now:
I saw this clip from the Washington Post today of Representative Alexandria Ocasio Cortez speaking out against Congressman Yoho who called her “disgusting,” “dangerous” and a “f*cking B*tch.” Cortez points out,
“Every congresswoman and every woman in this country, all of us, have had to deal with this in some form, some way, some shape in our lives. And I want to be clear that Representative Yoho’s comments were not deeply hurtful or piercing to me, because I have worked a working class job. I have waited tables…I have walked the streets in New York City. And this type of language is not new. I have encountered words uttered by Mr. Yoho and men uttering the same words as Mr. Yoho while I was being harassed in restaurants. I have tossed men out of bars that have used words like Mr. Yoho’s and I have encountered this type of harassment on the Subway in New York City. This is not new. And that is the problem…It is not about one incident: It is cultural. It is a culture of lack of impunity, of accepting of violence and violent language against women and an entire structure of power that supports that.”
And I do think this kind of abhorrent treatment is becoming more brazen under the current administration.
This clip really rang true for me because I watched it today, the day after I was called a sexist slur, a “cunt,” by some random guy screaming at me out the door of his Mustang.
Hell yes to the women who fight back and reclaim that word! (Or to the ones reading the phenomenal book Cunt, by Inga Musio.) Ladies, own that word: Do your thing! But if you are a man using it to demean a woman, no. The comment from this man honestly ruined my day: It made me feel like garbage. I know I shouldn’t have let some random nobody, pathetic guy whose pent-up anger is probably only the beginning of his issues, ruin my day and make me feel that way, but I couldn’t help it. It is comments like these that are aimed at putting a woman “in her place.” When men use that word towards women, what are they trying to accomplish? They are trying to insult a woman based on her gender, diminish her and put her back “in her place.”
AOC is a true hero. She speaks for the people and she speaks up about the way women are treated, saying, ENOUGH. Thank you AOC for standing up for us all.
Wisdom from the activist, professor, author and feminist, bell hooks, delivered to you in a Saved by the Bell…hooks format.
Whew! Thank goodness for upholding this basic right! Chief Justice John Roberts was the swing vote in this case and thank goodness he has come around! Four years ago that was not the situation.
The Ramos v. Louisiana court case, a case from Louisiana in which anti-abortion people sought to restrict women’s access to abortion by creating unnecessary obstacles, was brought to the Supreme Court. It was struck down in an historic win for reproductive rights yesterday!
The case was brought to the Court as a means of anti-choice individuals to try to take the first step to overturn the constitutional right to an abortion. Thankfully, the right to an abortion is still is upheld! This is cause for celebration and I cannot tell you how incredibly relieved I am about this news.
BUT, attacks on this basic right are still happening across the country. A New York Times article alludes to this fact in their title,
“The Supreme Court Stopped Anti-Abortion Momentum. For Now.”
It is still incredibly difficult and costly to exercise bodily autonomy in many, many states. Anti-abortion/forced-birther people are still fighting. But we pro-choice people will continue to fight to uphold our rights!
Women are not ovens! We are living, breathing people, with the right to exercise control over our bodies.
What we really need is for Congress to pass the Women’s Health Protection Act, a federal bill that would make sure that women have access to abortion without undue burden.
As ActforWomen.org states,
“The Women’s Health Protection Act (WHPA) is a federal bill that would protect the right to access abortion care by creating a safeguard against bans and medically unnecessary restrictions that apply to no similar medical care. These harmful restrictions are threatening to eliminate access to abortion care in large swaths of the country, and prevent people from making personal decisions about their health, their lives, and their futures.”
If you are a gal or a guy and you realize the importance of this bill and want to do your part, tell your representatives to support the Women’s Health Protection Act bill!
It’s quick and easy, and only takes about a minute or two. If you’d like to do so, you can click here https://www.actforwomen.org/take-action/
Act for Women creates a message for you so all you have to do is type in your information. It helps to add a personalized message though, something I do recommend. You can use mine as a template if you’d like:
I am a Social Studies teacher and woman of reproductive age in Colorado. I urge you to pass the Women’s Health Protection Act. My basic bodily autonomy and health is at stake, and so is other women’s. Please pass the WHPA.
Together, we can win this fight so that women can make their own choices about whether or not to have a child: So that no woman will be forced by the government to carry and birth a child.
As Nancy Northup, the president and CEO of the Center of Reproductive Rights said in a statement which was repeated by a Washington Post article,
“We’re relieved that the Louisiana law has been blocked today but we’re concerned about tomorrow. With this win, the clinics in Louisiana can stay open to serve the one million women of reproductive age in the state. But the Court’s decision could embolden states to pass even more restrictive laws when clarity is needed if abortion rights are to be protected.”
Northup concluded her statement by calling on Congress to pass the “Women’s Health Protection Act, a federal bill that would ensure the promise of Roe v. Wade is realized in every state for every person.”